EVERY WIFE SHOULD READ THIS
EVERY WIFE SHOULD READ THIS:
* Love him …when he "forgets" that special occasion. For
him every moment with you is special so he does not
need an occasion.
** Love him…when he comes late from the Musjid. He
wants
to make sure he is early with you in Jannah
(Paradise).
...
** Love him…when he admonishes you to don the hijaab.
He wants to be sure you enshrouded by Allah's Mercy
when you leave the home.
** Love him...when he is jealous. Out of... all the women
he could have, he chose you to be his wife!
** Love him...when he is working till late. At least he
comes home and you still get to sleep and wake up in his
loving and caring arms.
** Love him…when he has annoying little habits that
drives you nuts. You have them too (and maybe more)
** Love him…when does not praise your cooking. He told
you as newlyweds that yours was indeed always the best.
** Love him…when he looks dishevelled. He was more
busy caring for the family than grooming himself. By the
way he is cute!
** Love him…when he does not help in the home. He is
out earning a halaal (pure) income for the family.
** Love him...when he does not reply to your questions.
He does not want to hurt your feelings or is absorbed in
thinking about your welfare.
** Love him…when he looks beautiful. He's yours to
appreciate!
** Love him…when he goes out in the Path of Allah. He is
preparing a blissful eternal home for you in Jannah.
** Love him...when he does not comment when you get
angry. He is a good listener.
** Love him…when he buys you gifts you don't like. Smile
and tell him it's what you've always wanted. He took the
time and money out just for you!
** Love him…when he has developed a bad habit. You
have many more and with wisdom and politeness you
have all the time to help him change.
** Love him…when he is irritable and moody. Buy
chocolates, massage his head and feet and just chat to
him. He will become your slave!
** Love him…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It's
like a storm; it happens and will soon pass by.
** Love him…when he drives so fast. He only wants you
to be there in time.
** Love him…when he extends his period of rest. He is re-
charging himself to serve you the best.
** Love him…when he forgets to say "I love you". He
actually shows his love in many other ways.
** Love him…when he forgets to buy the bread or milk.
He was rushing home to be with you.
** Love him…when he does not give you a chance to talk.
He just knows what is in your heart and what it is you
want to say.
** Love him…when he "demands" respect. After all he is
the head of the house.
** Love him…when he shouts the kids. He only wants to
ensure they are corrected and have a good moral
upbringing.
** Love him…he is yours. You don't need any other
special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a man's character. Your Husband is
part of your life and should be treated as the King!.
Almighty Allah Ta'ala says:
" And among His Signs is this, that He created for you
mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in
tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy
between your (hearts)…" (Qur'an 30:21)
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is reported
to have said:
· 'Any woman who dies, and her husband is pleased with
her, will enter Paradise.'"(Hadith-Ibn Majah)
· "If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts her
month (of Ramadan), obeys her husband and guards her
chastity, then it will be said to her: 'Enter Paradise by
whichever of its gates you wish."(Hadith-Ahmad and al-
Tabarani)
· "Pay attention to how you treat him(husband), for he is
your Paradise and your Hell."(Hadith-13 Ahmad and al-
Nisa'i)
· "No human being is permitted to prostrate to another
, but if this were permitted I would have ordered wives
to prostrate to their husbands, because of the greatness
of the rights they have over them."(Hadith: Ahmad and
al-Bazzar)
Don't wait for that special occasion, take time NOW to
make him feel Special in Every Way! Just give him a
HUGE HUG and if he asks why then say: " It's just because
you are so SPECIAL."
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