EVERY WIFE SHOULD READ THIS


EVERY WIFE SHOULD READ THIS: 


* Love him …when he "forgets" that special occasion. For 



him every moment with you is special so he does not 





need an occasion.


** Love him…when he comes late from the Musjid. He 

wants 

to make sure he is early with you in Jannah 





(Paradise).

... 
** Love him…when he admonishes you to don the hijaab.

 He wants to be sure you enshrouded by Allah's Mercy 

when you leave the home.


** Love him...when he is jealous. Out of... all the women 

he could have, he chose you to be his wife! 


** Love him...when he is working till late. At least he

 comes home and you still get to sleep and wake up in his 

loving and caring arms.


** Love him…when he has annoying little habits that 

drives you nuts. You have them too (and maybe more)


** Love him…when does not praise your cooking. He told 

you as newlyweds that yours was indeed always the best.


** Love him…when he looks dishevelled. He was more 

busy caring for the family than grooming himself. By the 

way he is cute!


** Love him…when he does not help in the home. He is 

out earning a halaal (pure) income for the family.


** Love him...when he does not reply to your questions.

 He does not want to hurt your feelings or is absorbed in 

thinking about your welfare.


** Love him…when he looks beautiful. He's yours to 

appreciate!


** Love him…when he goes out in the Path of Allah. He is 

preparing a blissful eternal home for you in Jannah.


** Love him...when he does not comment when you get 

angry. He is a good listener.


** Love him…when he buys you gifts you don't like. Smile

 and tell him it's what you've always wanted. He took the 

time and money out just for you!


** Love him…when he has developed a bad habit. You 

have many more and with wisdom and politeness you

 have all the time to help him change.


** Love him…when he is irritable and moody. Buy

 chocolates, massage his head and feet and just chat to 

him. He will become your slave!


** Love him…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It's 

like a storm; it happens and will soon pass by.


** Love him…when he drives so fast. He only wants you 

to be there in time.


** Love him…when he extends his period of rest. He is re-

charging himself to serve you the best.


** Love him…when he forgets to say "I love you". He 

actually shows his love in many other ways.


** Love him…when he forgets to buy the bread or milk. 

He was rushing home to be with you.


** Love him…when he does not give you a chance to talk.

 He just knows what is in your heart and what it is you 

want to say.


** Love him…when he "demands" respect. After all he is 

the head of the house.


** Love him…when he shouts the kids. He only wants to

 ensure they are corrected and have a good moral 

upbringing.


** Love him…he is yours. You don't need any other 

special reason!!!!


All this forms part of a man's character. Your Husband is 

part of your life and should be treated as the King!.


Almighty Allah Ta'ala says:


" And among His Signs is this, that He created for you 

mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in 

tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy 

between your (hearts)…" (Qur'an 30:21) 



The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is reported 

to have said:


· 'Any woman who dies, and her husband is pleased with 

her, will enter Paradise.'"(Hadith-Ibn Majah) 


· "If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts her

 month (of Ramadan), obeys her husband and guards her 

chastity, then it will be said to her: 'Enter Paradise by 

whichever of its gates you wish."(Hadith-Ahmad and al-

Tabarani)



· "Pay attention to how you treat him(husband), for he is

 your Paradise and your Hell."(Hadith-13 Ahmad and al-


Nisa'i) 





· "No human being is permitted to prostrate to another

, but if this were permitted I would have ordered wives 

to prostrate to their husbands, because of the greatness 

of the rights they have over them."(Hadith: Ahmad and 

al-Bazzar)



Don't wait for that special occasion, take time NOW to 

make him feel Special in Every Way! Just give him a 

HUGE HUG and if he asks why then say: " It's just because 

you are so SPECIAL." 



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